Anastasia Kostenko, Dmitry Tarasov's wife, posted a list of "red flags" in marriage on social media, which, according to subscribers, the footballer himself has repeatedly fallen under. The model frankly shared what is unacceptable for her in a relationship, and many of these points surprisingly accurately describe past situations with her husband.

First, Kostenko named the absence of emotional intimacy. "When another woman knows his dreams, plans, fears, gives advice, is light, free, and always understands. And the wife is just a to-do list for tomorrow and an evasion of responsibility. Emotions are not a trifle; they are currency. If he doesn't spend it on his family, he's already investing in something else," Anastasia stated. According to her, if a man shares his innermost thoughts not with his wife, it's already a warning sign.

Another "red flag" is flirting under the guise of friendship. The mother of many children believes that this seemingly innocent communication is a direct path to infidelity. "To cherish your wife is not the same as being friends with an unmarried woman. Flirting is not a joke; it's testing boundaries. Can I take another step? Can I be a little more intimate? And the funniest thing is, they always say: 'What are you talking about?! We're just kidding around, it's a work correspondence.' But there's only one joke here — on your trust. Flirting is a trial run of infidelity," Kostenko said harshly. And immediately, summer 2025 comes to mind, when two bloggers published correspondence where Tarasov tried to get acquainted with them and asked for phone numbers. The footballer then justified himself by saying it was a "collaboration offer."

Anastasia also emphasized that a man should protect his chosen one, not other women. "The loudest red flag is when a man protects another woman more than his marriage. When simple questions cause anger, when 'you're annoying,' 'here we go again' sound more often than 'let's talk.' He only protects what is important to him," the model explained. Subscribers immediately recalled how Dmitry had repeatedly publicly ridiculed his wife, demonstrating her culinary failures and reproaching her for excessive sleep.

Double standards also made it onto the list of unacceptable things. "When he can be friends with other unmarried women, but you can't reply to a colleague at work. That's not love. That's control. The funniest thing is, such men are sure that this is normal," Kostenko indignantly stated.

And finally, a password on the phone. For Anastasia, this is not just privacy, but a lack of transparency in the relationship. "A password on the phone is normal. But when it turns into a secret, it's a signal. In marriage, there are no separate worlds. You have the same mugs, forks, towels, one bed. A shared life is about transparency. If everything is shared except the phone, then it's not about privacy. It's about there being something there that the wife shouldn't see. Honest relationships are not about secrets. Secrets are always someone's backup world," concluded the footballer's wife, who has four children with Tarasov, and he, by the way, is persuading her to have a fifth.